beyondpanic's Diaryland Diary
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Phone calls
My husband grew tired of waiting to hear from Popeye, so he called him at his home on Friday
night. The Sea Hag was there also, so I am sure Popeye was not able to speak freely.
My husband�s voice slowly escalated until he was pretty much screaming. I heard him tell
Popeye that he did not think it was fair that he had cut us out of his and the baby�s life just
because the Sea Hag hates me. Hub told him that he loved and missed Sweet Pea. I could only hear
Hub�s voice, so I don�t think Popeye had much to say.
Hub told me that Popeye said that he and the Sea Hag get along much better when we are not in
the picture.
I waited about 15 minutes and then called Popeye back. He was furious and the Sea Hag was
crying hysterically in the background. To make a long story short, he told me that his �life was
easier when we were not part of it�.
� his �life was easier when we were not part of it���
I�m tired of being the understanding and cooperative Mom. I told him that we would stay out
of his life forever. I told him that he is the only blockade between the Sea Hag�s insanity and
Sweet Pea. I told him that if the Sea Hag hurts that baby, I will hold him responsible because he
knows the Sea Hag is both mentally unstable and capable of inflicting harm on others (like
stabbing him with scissors).
I told him that he cannot pick and choose when he wants us in his life � that it�s not fair to
us.
I ended by telling him that when his grandfather dies, he is not to show his face at the
funeral. If he doesn�t want to be a part of our family, then he can�t come to the funeral.
I don�t feel any better � I just had no other choice.
11:11 - 2008-02-25
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