beyondpanic's Diaryland Diary
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Buddy
So, this is kind of interesting...
I work with a woman who is very nice and kinda crazy. She has never said a mean word about anyone and she just tells it like it is.
She married and divorced at a young age and has had relationships with several men throughout her life.
What I find so interesting about her is what she told me tonight at work. She has had a "Fu@k Buddy" for the last 13 years. Every Thursday night he stops at her house for a booty call - she calls him her fireman because he "stops, drops and rolls". They have no commitment - he's actually a married man. No money exchanges hands - occasionally he'll give her a present. She's not his mistress - there are no lies about him eventually leaving his wife. She says she doesn't feel guilty about it because �no one gets hurt� - his wife doesn't know about it. She loves knowing that once a week, she's going to have a great night in bed and then they go their separate ways for another week. Hell, she's probably having more fulfilling sex than alot of us who are in "normal" relationships.
I don't necessarily agree with her that no one gets hurt, but I find the concept fascinating. I married when I was 20 years old and I never really had the opportunity to date a lot of guys, much less have a �Fu@k Buddy��and who came up with the word �Fu@k Buddy�? It basically means sex without any obligation � no ring, no mortgage, no tuition payment, no car insurance, no �What are we having for Dinner?�, no �Who�s house are we having Christmas dinner at?�.
Just sex � no bullshit
Interesting�just saying.
9:16 p.m. - Tuesday, Mar. 10, 2009
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