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Phone calls

My husband grew tired of waiting to hear from Popeye, so he called him at his home on Friday night. The Sea Hag was there also, so I am sure Popeye was not able to speak freely.

My husband’s voice slowly escalated until he was pretty much screaming. I heard him tell Popeye that he did not think it was fair that he had cut us out of his and the baby’s life just because the Sea Hag hates me. Hub told him that he loved and missed Sweet Pea. I could only hear Hub’s voice, so I don’t think Popeye had much to say.

Hub told me that Popeye said that he and the Sea Hag get along much better when we are not in the picture.

I waited about 15 minutes and then called Popeye back. He was furious and the Sea Hag was crying hysterically in the background. To make a long story short, he told me that his “life was easier when we were not part of it”.

… his “life was easier when we were not part of it”……

I’m tired of being the understanding and cooperative Mom. I told him that we would stay out of his life forever. I told him that he is the only blockade between the Sea Hag’s insanity and Sweet Pea. I told him that if the Sea Hag hurts that baby, I will hold him responsible because he knows the Sea Hag is both mentally unstable and capable of inflicting harm on others (like stabbing him with scissors).

I told him that he cannot pick and choose when he wants us in his life – that it’s not fair to us.

I ended by telling him that when his grandfather dies, he is not to show his face at the funeral. If he doesn’t want to be a part of our family, then he can’t come to the funeral.

I don’t feel any better – I just had no other choice.

11:11 - 2008-02-25
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